UNCOVER THE PROCESS
How it works
Built with safety, intention, and explainable matching
Apply
Verify
Onboard
Profile
Match
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Apply & Verify
Users apply to join and verify their identity before accessing the platform. This ensures She & HER remains a protected, women-centered space.
How Verification Works:
How Verification Works:
- Government-issued ID verification
- Anti-bot and anti-impersonation checks
- Manual approval in MVP0
- Future AI-assisted anomaly detection as scale increases
Verification isn’t a feature — it’s the foundation.
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Intentional Onboarding
Instead of swiping, users answer intentional questions designed to understand how they relate — values, communication style, and intent.Users apply to join and verify their identity before accessing the platform. This ensures She & HER remains a protected, women-centered space.
How onboarding informs matching:
How onboarding informs matching:
- Responses become structured signals
- Research-informed relational categories
- Models identify alignment patterns
- Learning happens with user consent, upfront
We don’t infer compatibility from behavior later — we learn intentionally, upfront.
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Profile Creation
Profiles are generated from onboarding responses, not shallow prompts.
Bias mitigation by design:
Bias mitigation by design:
- Optional name + initial or randomized screen name
- Reduced appearance and name-based bias
- User control over visibility
This is where your ethics story lives naturally.
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Matching & Scoring
Matches reflect values, intent, and relational alignment — not popularity.
How matches work:
How matches work:
- Multi-dimensional compatibility scoring
- Intent alignment
- Complementarity, not engagement metrics
Matches are not a black box — users see why they were connected.
ALWAYS ON
Safety, Privacy & Trust
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End-to-end encrypted messaging
Screenshot protection
Reporting & moderation tools
Data minimization by default
Privacy-first access controls
Trust compounds. Our systems are designed to scale responsibly without compromising safety.
LOOKING AHEAD
Built to scale responsibly
She & HER is currently in private alpha, prioritizing safety and signal quality over speed.
As we scale, automation and AI assist — never replace — human oversight.
As we scale, automation and AI assist — never replace — human oversight.